Decisions When in Love

Life consists of making decisions that will affect yourself either on a short or long term. The main obstacle I find when making a decision is what your heart will express or make you feel, not necessarily guiding you through the right path. The heart is weak, kind and blind to the situations; it is only guided by the feelings one may have. On the other hand, there is the mind that has the ability to differ the right from wrong. The issue of the judgement when experiencing such a profound feeling as love will be present for a lifetime, and it’s needed for each of us to learn a way to cope with the mind and heart. 
Choosing what path to follow brings us the first obstacle. What to choose? My own minds’ experiences or my hearts’ kindness? It is a constant problem that will never abandon any of us. The mind will always be guided by the experiences that have build your being towards today. The exposure to life makes each of us have certain unique judgements that our heart might not agree with. In this world, people experience harsh environments that change their lives. 
The heart, what keeps us living and at the same time makes us experience feelings. The tangibility to situations is something that comes along with our kindness. It is in the heart where we feel a pain of guilt, the sweetness of love, bitterness of hate. Calling upon the feeling of love, it is the one that guides us to make our biggest mistakes. I believe love is the most powerful feeling one might experience, and also the one that brings us the worst situations to be in. It’s within this enamor where the mind knows what to do, but your heart filled with passion will dictate otherwise. 
Often, love it’s described as the most complicated feeling in the world; this situation is due to the blindfold we put in ourselves and how we block every mental thought that goes against our feelings. That “puppy love” is the one filled with ignorance people sense when being captured by this sentiment. This is the kind of love I refer to. The love that makes us do things we might feel sorry for later in our lives. At this point we only believe that happiness is by the side of our companion along this journey. Life is to determine if it was just an ludicrous journey or the one that determined our happiness. 

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  2. I find incredible when a person knows what is right and wrong and still choses to ignore what's best for him.

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  3. "The mind will always be guided by the experiences that have build your being towards today" this statement is as true as the water is clear, you will always be guided by the experiences that you have had during you life but you are not necessarily going to follow what you have learn because like you sad sometimes we choose the wrong path even though we now nothing good is going to come from it.

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  4. It may hurt sometime when we make decisions when in love, but we need to see them as lessons, because that way we will turn into better beings full of love.

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